Right now it’s just me. A human being with a vision: that we all* feel free and safe within our own skin and while we’re in relationship with other people. I believe the way we relate needs restructuring, because the current model isn’t working.
_{*by this I mean the people who want it, I’m an advocate for consent!}

How do I know this?

Because I’ve been in relationship my entire adult life. That’s 31 years of experience. Because for over a decade I tried to fix myself. I didn’t feel safe. I didn’t feel free. I was anxious, disconnected, and drowning under the weight of judgment, expectation, and social conditioning.

So I did all the things. Spirituality. Books. Courses. Therapy. Everything that promised I’d finally feel like me.

And while there are many vital tools — breathwork, somatics, meditation, community, yoga — None of them brought me home to myself. Not until about a year ago, when the roots of Transocial began re-growing.

Why even bother?

I am not a healer.
I am not here to save you.
I’m not here to tell you how to feel, how to love, or how to live.

I’m here to walk beside you.
I’ll ask questions and I’ll leave space for your truth to breathe.

Being Transocial is a return:
To emotional independence;
To connection without contracts;
To truth that doesn’t need to be palatable;
To being home — in yourself.

I believe:

• That trust is a false economy:
  It’s built on conditions, expectations, and invisible contracts.
  When we trust somebody, what we’re often saying is:
  “Act how I need you to — or I’ll call it betrayal.”
  
• That safety is self-sourced:
  It’s not granted or borrowed.
  It’s born from radical self-responsibility and the removal of expectation.
  On this path we walk self-led, rooted in our power.
  
• That love isn’t a performance:
  We don’t rehearse it. We don’t control it. We don’t trade it or earn it.
  Love is a living, breathing energy.
  And it’s inside you — always. You just forgot.
  
• And that freedom is radical acceptance:
  We don’t escape, deny or resist. We don’t control.
  We accept what’s real, and move from there.

A little more…

I don’t teach.
I ask questions that wake up the part of you that already knows.

I don’t create dependency.
I walk you out of them.

Transocial is not a brand.
It is not healing.
Transocial is a mirror.

If this awakens something in you — Great! Join in and walk with us.
If it doesn’t — no problem. Carry on with what’s working for you.
No shame. No pressure.

It’s your call.